Healed. Whole. Called.

You Don’t Need to Be a Perfect Mom — You Need to Be a Healed One

Episode Summary

What if the key to raising emotionally grounded children isn’t doing more — but healing first? In this powerful conversation, Wendy sits down with Aaliyah Burgess-Richburg, founder of The Very Intentional Mama, to talk about breaking generational patterns, releasing control, and parenting from peace, purpose, and Christ-centered identity.

Episode Notes

So many mothers are exhausted — not because they’re failing, but because they’re carrying wounds that were never meant to be parented through.

In this deeply grounding episode of Healed. Whole. Called., Wendy Melrose welcomes Aaliyah Burgess-Richburg, youth development strategist, educator, and founder of The Very Intentional Mama. Together, they unpack what it really means to raise emotionally healthy children without losing yourself in the process.

Aaliyah shares how God redirected her calling from the classroom to the home — revealing that before children can thrive emotionally, their mothers must feel safe, supported, and healed. This conversation explores gentle parenting through a biblical lens, emotional regulation, homeschooling pressure, public school discernment, and the hidden burnout so many moms carry in silence.

Wendy and Aaliyah also address identity beyond motherhood — why being a mom is a calling, not a definition — and how surrendering control allows God to lead both parent and child with grace.

This episode is for the mother who feels overwhelmed, unsure, or quietly asking, “Am I doing this right?”

It’s not about perfection.

It’s about healing, obedience, and trusting God in the season you’re in.